COACHING GOALS

Client Centered Goals

  • Structured assistance in knowing and taking action what you want
  • Help in identifying, clarifying  and implementing your specific goals in:
  • Work
  • Relationships
  • Family
  • Health
  • Fun
  • Spirituality
  • And anything else of this sort that is not tet adequately clear

Coach Centered Goals

  • Model, teach and coach you in living as a Real Adult by openly sharing what it is like to live as one
  • Help you be Truly Conscious in the decisions and choices that you make, as opposed to unwittingly driven by your emotional “stuff”
  • Help you discover your unrecognized emotional “knee jerks” that affect everything you say, do, think and feel–and that cannot be recognized without their being pointed out by someone outside of yourself.
  • Teach you a framework for understanding emotions:
  • What they are
  • How they work
  • Their relationship to truth and external reality, and
  • How to know the difference between emotions and Real Thinking
  • How to effectively manage your emotions long enough to do Real Thinking in order to…
  • Assess what’s “so”, or “real like gravity is real”, as distinct from how you happen to feel about it
  • Do Real Thinking to assess what’s “so”, or “real like gravity is real” as distinct from how you happen to feel about it
  • Use your best available judgment about what the Real problem is to be solved and what might work or at least help
  • Take conscious action accordingly,
  • Let the chips fall where they may, and if still alive after they do, use the same methodology for dealing with them effectively, wherever they fell.